5AM Thoughts
The thoughts that usually show up before the world wakes up. 5AM Thoughts is a collection of personal reflections, late-night realizations, insecurities, fears, lessons, storytimes, quiet conversations with myself, and the emotionally honest thoughts that tend to surface when life gets still enough to hear them clearly.
Some entries are about love. Some are about healing. Some are about Black womanhood, identity, loneliness, becoming, relationships, joy, grief, or figuring life out in real time.
And some are simply the thoughts that hit me when Peri decides 5AM is the perfect time for us to process life together. This space isn’t about perfection or pretending to have all the answers. It’s about honesty. The messy middle. The overthinking. The breakthroughs. The contradictions. The growth. And the journey of becoming a Black woman who is learning herself out loud.
Think of this as a glimpse into my personal journal — the thoughts I’m still unpacking, the lessons I’m still learning, and the conversations I believe more Black women deserve space to have openly.
Welcome to my 5AM thoughts.
Fuck Feminism, Respectfully of Course
As Black women, we often find traditional feminism overlooking our unique struggles. Womanism emerges as a framework that centers our experiences, prioritizing community and cultural heritage. Unlike feminism, which can focus on individualism, womanism addresses both gender inequalities and systemic racism.
In this blog, we will explore the key differences between womanism and feminism and encourage reflection on our identities. Join us as we embrace a movement that authentically uplifts our voices and experiences, creating an inclusive space that honors every aspect of who we are.
Being Qualified Can’t Out Perform a Racist System
In reflecting on the recent election and the journey of Vice President Kamala Harris, I've come to appreciate the complex dynamics of success and recognition, particularly for Black women. Despite her impressive accomplishments, Harris’s candidacy underscores the harsh reality that structural disadvantages often overshadow hard work and talent. This blog explores the 'Black Excellence complex' and the oppressive narrative that many feel they must overcome. It invites you to redefine your worth, embrace your authenticity, and create spaces that celebrate your identity. Together, let's navigate the challenges and celebrate the resilience that propels us forward.